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I Think My Husband Might Be Gay — WTF Should I Do?

May 28, 2026

This topic comes up more often than you might think in our therapy practice — particularly in couples therapy for one, where one partner is navigating something too painful, too confusing, or too private to […]

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My Partner Wants to Try Anal – WTF Should I Do?

May 24, 2026

So your partner just brought up anal intimacy, and now you’re sitting with a cocktail of feelings you weren’t expecting. Maybe it was awkward. Maybe it came out of nowhere. Maybe you said “sure, let […]

I’m Not Sexually Attracted To My Husband

May 24, 2026

Originally published: February 1, 2022 Last updated: May 24, 2026 Understanding Loss of Attraction in Marriage Losing physical attraction to your husband is one of the most unsettling experiences in marriage, yet it’s far more […]

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My Boyfriend Wants Sex Everyday and I Don’t

May 1, 2026

“My boyfriend wants sex every day and I’m just not interested that often. Does this mean we’re not compatible? Is something wrong with me—or him?” If you’ve ever felt this way, you’re not alone. Mismatched […]

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My Boyfriend Doesn’t Take Me on Dates: What to Do

April 20, 2026

So you’re in a relationship, but you can’t remember the last time your boyfriend actually planned a date. Netflix on the couch has become the default. Again. You’re not asking for Paris—just literally anything that […]

“My Girlfriend Doesn’t Know If She Wants to Be With Me!” – A Couples Therapist’s Advice

March 7, 2026

I hear this statement at least once a week in my therapy practice: “My girlfriend doesn’t know if she wants to be with me.” The pain in someone’s voice when they say these words is […]

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My Husband Won’t Touch Me Anymore and I Feel Ugly

February 10, 2026

When Your Husband Won’t Touch You You stand in front of the bathroom mirror longer than you used to. Not because you like what you see, but because you’re searching for answers. You turn to […]

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My Boyfriend’s Penis is Too Big and It Hurts! WTF Should I Do?

December 29, 2025

When Size Becomes a Real Problem in the Bedroom You’ve probably heard the saying “bigger is better” repeated so many times it feels like gospel truth. Society treats a large penis like some kind of […]

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My Partner Wants a Threesome

December 23, 2025

Understanding Your Partner’s Request: A Therapist’s Perspective So your partner just brought up the idea of inviting a third person into your intimate life, and now you’re sitting there wondering what the heck just happened. […]

My Wife Caught Me Cheating and Wants a Divorce!

December 19, 2025

Reading Time: 8 minutes The Email That Started It All We got this gem in our inbox from a guy we’ll call “Mr. Reality Check” (he called himself “Mr. Busted” but let’s be honest about […]

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My Husband Uses Me For Sex But Treats Me Like Crap

December 8, 2025

I hear this more often than you might think. You’re lying there after sex, feeling hollow and used, wondering how the person who just touched your body can be so cold to your heart. Your […]

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My Boyfriend Called Me Fat: 5 Ways to Respond!

December 4, 2025

My Boyfriend Fat-Shamed Me! Being called fat is probably one of the most devastating things I’ve ever experienced. When it happened to me in my romantic relationship—when the person I loved and trusted made that […]

WTF Should I Do?

I Think My Husband Might Be Gay — WTF Should I Do?

My Partner Wants to Try Anal – WTF Should I Do?

I’m Not Sexually Attracted To My Husband

My Boyfriend Wants Sex Everyday and I Don’t

My Boyfriend Doesn’t Take Me on Dates: What to Do

“My Girlfriend Doesn’t Know If She Wants to Be With Me!” – A Couples Therapist’s Advice

My Husband Won’t Touch Me Anymore and I Feel Ugly

My Boyfriend’s Penis is Too Big and It Hurts! WTF Should I Do?

My Partner Wants a Threesome

My Wife Caught Me Cheating and Wants a Divorce!

My Husband Uses Me For Sex But Treats Me Like Crap

My Boyfriend Called Me Fat: 5 Ways to Respond!

My Boyfriend Called Me Fat: 5 Ways to Respond!

My Partner Had an Emotional Affair: Signs, Meaning, and What to Do

I Got Ghosted After a Great Date!

My Boyfriend’s Penis is Too Big and It Hurts! WTF Should I Do?