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My Boyfriend Wants Sex Everyday and I Don’t

May 1, 2026

“My boyfriend wants sex every day and I’m just not interested that often. Does this mean we’re not compatible? Is something wrong with me—or him?” If you’ve ever felt this way, you’re not alone. Mismatched […]

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My Boyfriend Doesn’t Take Me on Dates: What to Do

April 20, 2026

So you’re in a relationship, but you can’t remember the last time your boyfriend actually planned a date. Netflix on the couch has become the default. Again. You’re not asking for Paris—just literally anything that […]

The Mind Reader’s Trap: Why Assumptions Damage Relationships

April 10, 2026

By: Alexandra DeWoskin, LCSW The Role of Assumptions in Relationships In my work with individuals and couples as a counselor in Chicago, the issue of assumptions surfaces frequently. I define assumptions as nothing more than […]

“My Girlfriend Doesn’t Know If She Wants to Be With Me!” – A Couples Therapist’s Advice

March 7, 2026

I hear this statement at least once a week in my therapy practice: “My girlfriend doesn’t know if she wants to be with me.” The pain in someone’s voice when they say these words is […]

7 Fun Places in Chicago for Couples That Are Free

February 21, 2026

Chicago offers countless opportunities for couples to connect without spending a dime. Whether you’re in a new relationship or have been together for years, exploring the city together strengthens your bond and creates lasting memories. […]

10 Ways to Create More Intimacy for Couples From a Relationship Therapist

December 10, 2025

More Intimacy Means Active Involvement By: Couples Counseling Chicago Staff If you are looking to create more intimacy in your relationship, you certainly aren’t alone. Many Chicago couples seek out therapy with the hope of […]

5 Signs That You Should Consider Couples Therapy

November 30, 2025

Time For Couples Therapy? Every relationship goes through seasons. Some are filled with joy and connection, while others feel heavy with tension and distance. The question many couples ask themselves is: “When is the right […]

5 Ways a Therapist Can Help Your Relationship

July 6, 2025

By: Alan Tsang, LPC, NCC Are you sometimes wondering if your relationship is worse than anyone else’s in Chicago? Do you wonder whether you and your partner can make the relationship work? Do you find yourself […]

Why Don’t My Relationships Go Beyond Three Dates?

May 18, 2025

More than just a few dates By: CCC Staff It can seem as though romantic fulfillment is getting more and more difficult to pursue in the era of dating apps, a broader dating pool overall, […]

5 Tips for Dating a Recovering Alcoholic

December 8, 2024

How to Date a Recovering Alcoholic By: CCC Staff Are you currently dating a recovering alcoholic? Is this the first time you have found yourself in a relationship with someone who cannot drink – even […]

5 Ways You Attract Emotionally Unavailable Men

September 22, 2024

Emotionally Unavailable Men By: Couples Counseling Staff One of the biggest reasons people seek out counseling is to help them better understand their approach to relationships. This is particularly true for individuals who have identified […]

7 Major Benefits of Date Nights To Improve Intimacy

July 20, 2024

How Date Nights Help Your Relationship Hello everyone! I’m a Couples Therapist based in the heart of Chicago, and today I want to talk about something that’s simple yet profoundly impactful for relationships—date nights. Whether […]

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